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Keeping Track of the "To Dos"
 
There are a variety of tasks that need to be completed to get the "show on the road".  Use our To Do List Worksheets to help you organize your activities.  You can customize them to fit your wedding. 

To Do List By Category

To Do List Time Line

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Download link to disk"

 
Nine to Twelve Months
  • Announce Engagement in the newspaper
  • Announce Engagement to friends and family
  • Engagement Parties
  • Wedding Rings Chosen
  • Book Ceremony Site - Get Contract
  • Book Officient
  • Book Caterer - Get Contract
  • Book Band or DJ
  • Book Reception Site - Get Contract
  • Create Plan/Schedule for Wedding Planning
  • Decide Number of Guests
  • Decide what type of wedding (day/night, inside/out)
  • Meet with Coordinator - Get ideas
  • Set Initial Budget
  • Set Wedding Date and Time
  • Visit Bridal Shows
Six to Nine Months
  • Brides Shoes
  • Bridesmaids Dresses Chosen
  • Find Bridesmaid Dresses and Send info
  • Find Tuxedoes
  • Order or Purchase Wedding Gown
  • Contact Attendants
  • Contact Flower Girl/ Ring Bearer
  • Contact someone to be point person for the day
  • Arrange for Reception Decorations
  • Book Florist
  • Order Cake
  • Plan Honeymoon
  • Book Photographer
  • Book Videographer
  • Book all necessary rentals: linen, china, glasses, decorations, structures, etc.
  • Book Transport: Limousines, carriages, vans, etc.
  • Start Compiling Guest List (have family do so too)
Four to Six Months
  • Reserve room for wedding night
  • Reserve rooms for out-of-town guests
  • Bridesmaids Dresses Ordered
  • Contact mothers to select their dresses
  • Send Tux Inf.
  • Contraception
  • Gynecologist Apt.
  • Book Honeymoon
  • Start Looking for housing
  • Find Blood Test requirements
  • Insurance for Wedding/Rehearsal
  • Select and order invitations and stationary
  • Reserve Restaurant/ Home
Two to Four Months
  • Cake Knife
  • Card Box
  • Communion Cup
  • Communion Plate
  • Flower girl basket
  • Guest Book
  • Party Favors
  • Ring Pillow
  • Toasting Glasses
  • Unity Candle
  • Make/purchase Veil
  • Wedding Dress Alterations
  • Contact Potential Helpers
  • Plan bridesmaids' luncheon or other parties
  • Get Colors Done for Make-up
  • Select Music
  • Pre-marital Counseling
  • Confirm Menu with Caterer
  • Register at Store 1
  • Register at Store 2
  • Find a place to live
  • Bride Get Addresses
  • Design and Decide where to get programs printed
  • Groom Get Addresses
  • Make maps and directions to ceremony & reception
  • Select Master of Ceremonies to run things
  • Select Music (for musicians or DJ or make CD)
  • Sound System (configure, who will run it)
  • Plan rehearsal dinner, time and place
  • Create or Hire web designer
Six to Eight Weeks
  • Gift for Maid of Honor
  • Gifts for Bridesmaids
  • Inform guests of location or refer them to web site
  • Brides Undergarments
  • Confirm Date and time with Officient
  • Find and send music for Musicians
  • Order of Ceremony
  • Send music to Musicians
  • Order Ceremony Flowers
  • Purchase plastic toasting glasses if not provided
  • Purchase Honeymoon Clothes
  • Invitations
  • Mail Invitations and Announcements
  • Postage (invites and return cards)
  • Rehearsal / Rehearsal Dinner Invitations
  • RSVP Cards
  • Bridal Portrait and/or Engagement Portrait
  • Send Example Photos to Photographer
  • Send Photo List to Photographer
  • Send music to Musicians
Four to Six Weeks
  • Gift for Best Man
  • Gift for Bride
  • Gift for Groom
  • Gifts for Groomsmen
  • Confirm necessary accommodations for guests
  • Check to see if groomsmen have ordered tuxes
  • Confirm that Bridesmaids dresses are fitted
  • Grooms Shoes
  • Pick up Wedding Rings
  • Purchase Going Away Outfit
  • Schedule Final Fitting
  • Trousseau
  • Hair Trial
  • Makeup and Nail Trial
  • Schedule Hair/Makeup/Nail Appointments
  • Confirm Sound System, set-up, sound technician
  • Confirm details and delivery with Florist
  • Arrange for purchase and delivery of Beverage for Toast
  • Marriage License and any needed blood tests
  • Decide and Document Order of Reception
  • Send out invitations
Two to Four Weeks
  • Gifts for Helpers, attendants
  • Marriage License and any needed blood tests
  • Gifts for Kids
  • Gifts for Parents
  • Schedule Dress Cleaning
  • Arrange for gifts to be taken from reception to home
  • Communion Elements
  • Buy Punch
  • Packed to move
  • Print Programs
  • Purchase or Make decorative Wedding Certificate
  • Meet for Timing Meeting
  • Coordinate clean-up
  • Finalize Guest List
  • Plan Seating Chart
  • Arrange for ride between ceremony & reception
  • Arrange for ride between reception & hotel
Two Weeks
  • Confirm all clothing/accessories for bridal party
  • Bride Get Hair Cut
  • Confirm time for flower/deco delivery/set-up
  • Confirm with Florist
  • Confirm with Baker about cake
  • Make any address changes necessary
  • Confirm Reception order with MC
  • Final Fitting
One Week
  • Try on wedding apparel/accessories to confirm fit
  • Arrange for someone to take bridal party preparation items home from the sites
  • Wrap Gifts
  • Groom Hair Cut
  • Make-up Trial
  • Nail Trial
    Confirm details with musicians/vocalist/sound tech
  • Review seating details with ushers
  • Confirm final head count and menu with caterer
  • Confirm Honeymoon Details
  • Pack for Honeymoon
  • Confirm Guest List (call any who have not responded)
  • Print Seating Cards
  • Confirm/Review details with photographer/videographer
  • Confirm details with musicians/vocalist/sound tech
  • Confirm Rehearsal Details with attendants, officients, participants, wedding coordinator, ceremony site, vendors
  • Have car washed
  • Create and Print "Game Plan" for the Day
  • Delegate responsibilities for wedding day
Day Before
  • Pack for Wedding Night
  • Hand out wedding day "Game Plan" at Rehearsal
  • Nail Appointment/Massage
  • Attend Rehearsal and Dinner
  • Wedding Rehearsal/ Dinner
Day Of
  • Bring License
  • Bring Overnight Bag
  • Eat healthy
  • Hair Appt.
  • Have best man, maid of honor, and officient sign wedding license and certificate
  • Leave Plenty of time to get dressed
To Do After Wedding
  • Move
  • Name Change
  • Thank you notes (send within one year)
 

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Money-Wise Tips

 

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Helpful Books

 

Bridal Bargains

The Unofficial Guide to Planning your Wedding

 
 

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